Hanging Out with the Band

Hanging Out with the Band

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Guys Point of View

I wrote this note while I was in college, it was inspired by multiple failed relationships and seeing my friends jumping through the same hoops, so I hope this blog helps someone.
Ohh by the way someone told me they've seen this before some where, which is not weird due to facebook mostly.

Guy's point of view...



We don't care if you talk to other guys.
 We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.
Nothing is that important at 2 a.m.
that it can't wait till the morning.
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Also, when we tell you "you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning", we fucking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
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Yeah, you can quote me.

Push us down on the couch and make a move once in a while.
We like that aggressiveness about you and we like the unexpected.
When we know you're really happy, it makes us happy too.

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Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood im in.

LET US PAY FOR YOU!

DON'T "FEEL BAD"

We enjoy doing it (Paying for you).

It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."
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Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

Honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up

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Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.
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Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

Don't talk about how hott Brad Pitt or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.

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Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful", I'd be stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of 
"Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
On the other hand im not saying I wouldn't like it either ; )
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Girls, I cannot stress this enough:
IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE.
DITCH HIS SORRY, DISGRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION SELF, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH RESPECT


Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ...
....AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

Att. to all.................
Give the nice guys a chance!!!!!! we deserve it!!! let us finish in a place other than last and always know that we think you look beautiful in anything you wear.

It's not us kissing your ass.

It's not us just after some sex.

You just look beautiful.

To alot of us, you could dress up as a guy & we would turn gay for you.

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